[Writing in English]Day 1_Powerful reasons to love your enemies

Do you have a person you really hate?

If you do, please share me with the story and how you deal with it?

 

I had a person whom I really hate.

I think I felt this way not only because we had difference in characters but also the situation we face let this happen. 

I realized we had different character after we did a enneagram test which is a charater test

 

I found myself thinking we did not have a good relationship for a few reasons.

 

First of all, our ways of thinking were totally different. Most of time, I could not undersatand them because I never dealt with such different characteristics. 

second, we consider ourselves rivals, regardless of the fact that we were on the same team. My boss often put us through thinking about promotions.

(or we were in rival position in terms of promotion). Although I had more experience and was older.

Third or all, lack of distributing tasks evenly. When it came to distributing a task, we would frequently argue whom to who would do this.

Our boss gave up distributing it to and let us do it. She mentioned that she is also confusing how to do that. confused how it should be done.

 

I could'nt agree more that It was the time I truly felt the hatred.

Of course, it wasn't really good for my mental health.

I was the person who is easily give up continuing conversation when it comes to uncomfortable situation. Through this exprience, however, I realized that  doesn't really solve the problem.

Also, I think I changed my personality a little by at least trying not to give up in the situation and talk about it.

 

In conclusion, we were all young so it happend mainly because of lack of commuication.

 

I believe, this article is helpful especially when they first face to hatred.

I was lucky I had a person who taught me these things and helped to control my emotions at that time.

Because of the person I could ease my anger.

I learend at that time that the adversary's negative comments might be helpful for you to develop yourself.

They are saying what they feel about you directly which can be true...

Yes, her comment of her was somewhat true.

I'm really nervous when I talk infront of people.

 

After admitting this, I felt no anger in my mind. I no longer felt anger in my mind.

I can say that was a good experience but don't want to face it again.

 

 

https://www.lifehack.org/703124/8-powerful-reasons-to-love-your-enemies

8 Powerful Reasons to Love Your Enemies

 

 

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